Lenten Lessons for Everyone

It's "Fat Tuesday" and tomorrow is Ash Wednesday when many churches will place ashes on the forehead of Christians who observe this rite. For many, the next 40 days (not counting Sundays) will be a time of observance and reflection.

During this Lenten time leading up to the celebration of Easter, there will be self-sacrifices or even the addition of something positive. The common theme must be consistency, and I've had my own little lessons attempting to do both―for the most part, successfully.

I once gave up chocolate which, for me, was like sacrificing the very pleasure of eating. It was difficult, but I came away with a new appreciation of the struggles others must face with addiction. My situation, of course, paled with those in that circumstance, but nevertheless, I understood the intense desire for something I could not have.

As if chocolate weren't enough of a challenge, I then chose to give up sweets―no candy, no desserts, and no birthday cake and ice cream at the parties for numerous family members who were born in that period of time. I just sat in a chair and quietly "enjoyed" my energy bar.

Another year, I vowed to walk more―not an easy activity for me as one who loves her adult go-kart (aka scooter). But the best addition I've ever done is to make certain I did something consciously every day to make this world a better place. It was such a positive activity, I'm still making that effort and documenting it years later.

To Christians, it is difficult to understand the many and overwhelming sacrifices made by Jesus. Anything we could ever do would be but pale in comparison. But, we still make this feeble attempt to get a small glimpse to understand what He suffered and did for humanity. 

As to those who don't observe Lent, there are lessons to be learned here for you, too. It is good to deny ourselves once in a while and focus on doing something positive for our fellowman. "Love one another" was a great commandment, and it's still the best sentiment and action to a fulfilling and successful life. After all, knowing we are here on earth to care for each other is what gives use purpose and makes life worth living.